Relationships fail whenever we fall in love with pain.
Or on the other side, we share pain. Pain is the adhesive we reapply to keep us together. Common pain becomes common ground. We fail to expand beyond the surface area of our pain. In the BEST relationships, pain is fertilizer, NOT a foundation. Pain may bring us together but it will not keep us together.
Making the Shift
To fall out of love with pain, you must cultivate vision around the expectations you want. The thoughts of your heart--not your head--determine who you are. People have responded to the Twitter It's NOT A Relationship hashtag because we can more easily define what love is NOT. We must take it a step further to balance our expectations beyond what love is not with clear definitions of what love is.
I always ask V.I.P Coaching Relationships partners (clients) What is your vision of love? In over 12 years, all have initially responded with a vision of their pain and its history. Through V.I.P Coaching we move away from relationships rooted in pain to ones rooted in peace.
You can begin to reset your relationship Pattern and fall out of love today. Here are some questions to help you get started before you begin V.I.P Coaching.
Answer these Reflection Questions by yourself:
When you break up with pain, you heal your heart, which heals your vision. It's time for you to LIVE and LOVE On Your BEST Level. Bye pain. This is the breakup.
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